Articles about Focus

The Upgraded 4 Burner Theory

March 27th, 2017 / No Comments »

A while back I read an excellent article by master blogger James Clear on what he called the 4-burner theory. Despite loving the overall concept, I rejected the idea of only having 4 burners. Partially I rejected the number 4 because I prefer odd numbers to even, partially because I just couldn’t quite get around [...]

The power of getting to one task at a time: Using the “Understand, Apply and Shift” model of problem solving.

April 8th, 2016 / No Comments »

This week I realized that things were feeling a little out of control.  I took stock and realized that I have been slipping into the great American pastime of multitasking.  What this looks like for me is books piled on my nightstand (literally, I’m in the middle of 6 books right now), multiple projects that [...]

The Power of Small Victories

January 25th, 2016 / No Comments »

As 2015 comes to a close (I’m writing this on New year’s eve), I am spending some time thinking about the year, and how I want to move forward into 2016.  I am not much of a resolution maker, since I know both from piles of research, as well as many failed personal resolutions for [...]

How To Stop Over-Analyzing Him

November 16th, 2015 / No Comments »

Finding yourself making comparisons? Are you spending time micro-managing your boyfriend? Do you find yourself breaking down every. single. thing. he. says? I would guess that these behaviors are making you feel upset and leaving you confused and anxious. The problem with over-analyzing anyone, especially your partner, is that it is a self-producing cycle. The more your doubt, [...]

The Tyranny Of Being Right

April 27th, 2015 / No Comments »

As I was thinking about the topic for my blog for April, I kept coming back to the notion of spring cleaning, and how we can “spring clean” not just our houses, cars or desks, but our minds.  It is time to take out the trash, so to speak, inside our own heads.  What are [...]